Real Fact About Maturity

Maturity is a high achievement that define a person advance level of thinking that has unique self value and able to produce massive benefits to own self and people around him or her in a life long process. It's something that need to try really hard to achieve and advance to that level. That's how many people think, although I consider it's not really true to think that we need to put great effort to become mature, because it's not all about being mature in thinking.

Most often, people prefer being mature instead of another side. The common reasons for such preference is mainly due to mature thinking manage to produce many good decision making and reduce troubles in life, and in many occasions. Therefore many people think that mature is all about thinking in a mature way, but did not realize what mature people usually do is not just thinking things right, but also consider and behave in the right way using good logical thinking to achieve the great result that is good in many ways. Therefore, maturity is a mindset, but it's depending on your perception and behavior to determine how mature you are.

Beware, there are a lot of fallacies out there about maturity. One of the common fallacies is to think that we will eventually became mature as we aged, which is totally wrong. Maturity is a life long process, there is no end of it. And there is no absolute truth to say that people definitely get mature when they aged, because you can always find people with older age decide something that is totally against the goods of many people but only good in his or her own mindset. Also, been through and experience a lot in one same thing doesn't mean you are mature enough to make the right decision. This can be subjective especially if a person begin something with an incorrect mindset.

To ensure that you are on the right track to maturity, don't try to think in a mature way because there is no absolute guideline for people to follow to make you a mature person. Rather, you need to practice sound and ethical thinking and behavior to get to that level, and to make everything better in your life.

You can find large amount of guide or list from internet about what to think and do to become mature, below are some list to begin with:

Mindset & Behavior for Maturity

1. Time is limited, every seconds can cause big change in life.
2. Saving won't make anyone rich.
3. Money don't bring happiness, earning more doesn't guarantee rich and happiness
4. Spending more doesn't bring back the right value and more capital, spending right is.
5. Problems are not meant to be worried over and over again, it's meant to be solved. If you can't solve it, you are not the right person to worry about.
6. It's important to meet people who are rich in knowledge and experience, not only rich in money.
7. Opportunity is reachable only when you make effort to reach it.
8. Regrets can be a misery for a lifetime
9. Your trouble is meant to be shared with people that can be trusted, instead of keep it all in your heart
10. Success don't comes to you as you aged.
11. What people said about you is what they think, not your actual self. It's true only when you accept it.
12. True value is hidden, can only be seen by heart and true understanding. And it's not measured by the size and unit in physical term.
13. "Failed to plan is plan to failed" is always true.
14. Truth is always better than rumors.
15. Success and achievement is produced by own effort, not given by people.
16. When involve in a negative situation, think about how to improve and avoid mistake yourself, and not how other people should be blamed and changed.
17. Understand that ego should be thrown away and accept lose, defeat, and mistake of ownself.
18. True success is not how many people think that you are successful.
19. Accept that there are always people who are better than you.
20. Clearly aware and appreciate every good and bad things in your life.
21. Understand that success, power, and wealth is nothing important than true happiness.